Anonymous asked:

I went round with this girl @ a theme park (with others(as friends)) I didn't feel it at the time, but after a few days I realised that I have a crush on her. It's been a week now and the pain is getting worse(I've felt depressed all day). I need to know how to deal with the pain, and hopefully how to ask her out.

Extra info:
I am quite shy and the girl I have a crush on is really kind, likes reading and has lots of friends.

Oh gentle Nony, it sounds like you’ve come down with a bad case of the chestbursters.

Your crush sounds like a really great girl (who doesn’t like kindness, books, and friends?). Here’s my advice: Try to stay positive. It’s really hard to be your best, most lovable self when you’re feeling insecure. If you’re kind to yourself it’ll be much easier to show your crush how awesome you are.

Get pumped! Give yourself a pep talk! Start telling her about things you’re interested in (music, books, historical docu-dramas) and ask her lots of questions.

Don’t put too much pressure on yourself either. When you place high expectations on a situation you can psych yourself out. Whatever you do, just avoid pulling one of these.

Good luck! I know you’ll do great!

A.